Victimhood implies that we had nothing to do with the current condition of our life, that it has been done to us, not by us. After all, why would we put ourselves in such un-fun conditions? That would be silly.
Karma is a powerful force here on Earth. There is no escaping it. It weaves through multiple lifetimes ensuring that lessons that need to be learned are learned whether from the current life or a past life.
That means that in our past, this life or a past life, when we behaved badly by inappropriately harming (emotionally, physically, monetarily, spiritually) an animal, plant, human or nature that we have automatically signed up for God to send us a lesson to teach us not to behave like that again. Ever. It needs to be blazed into our soul so strongly that that behavior never even remotely comes to mind again. When we learn the lesson on that level, it never comes back again.
So, if you want to stop the recurring circumstances that plague your life, stop seeing yourself as a victim. See the circumstances as a lesson. Figure out what you need to learn. Learn it deeply and the Universe will stop sending it your way. Now that’s refreshing!
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